We’ve been talking about sex for over 25 years. Now it’s your turn.

If you’re a gay or bisexual man, we’d like to invite you to join the other men currently chatting in our forum. We’re interested in hearing what you've got to say about your sex life. What’s said in the forum is confidential but we will be listening. Your conversations will help shape what we do for you in the future.

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If you’re a gay or bisexual man over 16 years old, you can apply to join the conversation in our secure and private forum

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The welisten community is a private space for men to talk about sex. To apply to be a member of this space we need to know some information about you. This is so that we have a good mix of people to listen and learn from. This should only take a few minutes of your time.

We promise that the information you provide will remain completely confidential and we will never share anything you say with anyone outside of the The Listening Team.

So, let’s get started…

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  • Name*

    Surname*

  • E-mail*

    Age group*

  • Postcode*

    We only need the first 3 digits (e.g. SW1)

  • Orientation*

    Ethnic origins*

  • Years of education after the age of 16*

  • I confirm I am a male*

  • Relationship status

  • Number of male sexual partners in the last 12 months

    This might seem like a personal question to ask, but it helps us understand you better.

  • Have you ever had an HIV test?

    If yes, what was the result?

    We understand that not everyone will want to answer this. However, as with all these questions, we promise this won’t ever be disclosed to anyone.

  • Twitter ID

    If you’re already on Twitter, we’d like to know who you are. As with all the info you share, this will remain completely confidential, unless you choose to make it public on your profile.

  • *mandatory fields

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We really value your interest. If you get invited to the forum community you’ll hear from us in a few days.

In the meantime, it's your turn to talk on Facebook and Twitter.

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Privacy Policy

How we use your information

We are dedicated to safeguarding and preserving your privacy when visiting this website or when you communicate electronically with us. This document sets out how we use and protect any personal information that you provide to us, or that we collect from you.

For the purpose of the Data Protection Act 1998 our data controller is Terrence Higgins Trust, the operator of this website. Terrence Higgins Trust is subject to certain obligations with respect to the processing of personal information entered at www.welisten.org.uk

We may change this policy from time-to-time by updating this page.

Our organisation

This website is operated by the Terrence Higgins Trust

This Privacy Policy covers the www.welisten.org.uk website (“our website”)

Organisation Name: Terrence Higgins Trust

Address: 314-320 Gray’s Inn Road, London WC1X 8DP

Data Controller: Terrence Higgins Trust

Information we collect

In operating our website we may collect and process the following data about you:

Details of your visits to our website and the resources that you access including, but not limited to, traffic data, location data and other communication data.

Information that you provide by filling in forms on our website.

Information provided to us when you communicate with us for any reason.

How we use cookies

A cookie is a small file which asks permission to be placed on your computer's hard drive. Once you agree, the file is added and the cookie helps analyse web traffic or lets you know when you visit a particular site.

We use traffic log cookies to identify which pages are being used. This helps us analyse information about web page traffic and improve our website in order to tailor it to your needs and those of other users. We only use this information for statistical analysis purposes and then the data is removed from the system.

Cookies help us provide you with a better website by enabling us to monitor which pages you find useful and which you do not. A cookie in no way gives us access to your computer or any information about you, other than the data you choose to share with us.

You can choose to accept or decline cookies. Most web browsers automatically accept cookies but you can usually modify your browser setting to decline cookies if you prefer.

How we use your information

The information that we collect and store relating to you is primarily used to enable us to provide and improve our services to you.

Please be advised that we never reveal information about identifiable individuals to third parties but we may, on occasion, provide them with aggregate statistical information about visitors to our website. This information would never identify you in any way.

Security

We will take all reasonable steps to make sure that your data is treated securely and in agreement with this Privacy Policy. The transmission of any information via the internet is not completely secure, however. Therefore we cannot guarantee the security of data sent to us electronically and transmission of such data is therefore entirely at your own risk.

Third party links

This website contains links to third party websites. These websites should have their own privacy policies and we do not accept any responsibility or liability for their policies.

Access to information

The Data Protection Act 1998 gives you the right to access the information that we hold about you. Should you wish to receive information regarding the details that we hold about you please contact us via the address below.

How to contact us

If you would like to know more about the information we collect via www.welisten.org.uk and how we use it, please contact us at the Terrence Higgins Trust, 314-320 Gray’s Inn Road, London WC1X 8DP FAO the Data Controller.

Terms & Conditions

Terms and conditions

Welcome to our website. If you continue to browse and use this website you are agreeing to comply with and be bound by the following terms and conditions of use, which together with our privacy policy govern [business name]’s relationship with you in relation to this website.

The term ‘www.welisten.org.uk’ or ‘Terrence Higgins Trust’ or ‘us’ or ‘we’ refers to the owner of the website whose registered office is 314-320 Garys Inn Road, London WC1X 8DP. Our company registration number is 1778149, registered in England and Wales. Our charity numbers are 288527 (England and Wales) and SCO39986 (Scotland). The term ‘you’ refers to the user or viewer of our website.

The use of this website is subject to the following terms of use:

By registering with this site, you confirm that you are a gay or bisexual man aged 16 years or older.

This website contains user generated content for which we accept no responsibility.

The content of the pages of this website is for your general information and use only. It is subject to change without notice.

Neither we nor any third parties provide any warranty or guarantee as to the accuracy, timeliness, performance, completeness or suitability of the information and materials found or offered on this website for any particular purpose. You acknowledge that such information and materials may contain inaccuracies or errors and we expressly exclude liability for any such inaccuracies or errors to the fullest extent permitted by law.

Your use of any information or materials on this website is entirely at your own risk, for which we shall not be liable. It shall be your own responsibility to ensure that any products, services or information available through this website meet your specific requirements.

This website contains material which is owned by or licensed to us. This material includes, but is not limited to, the design, layout, look, appearance and graphics. Reproduction is prohibited other than in accordance with the copyright notice, which forms part of these terms and conditions.

All trademarks reproduced in this website, which are not the property of, or licensed to the operator, are acknowledged on the website.

Unauthorised use of this website may give rise to a claim for damages and/or be a criminal offence.

From time to time this website may also include links to other websites. These links are provided for your convenience to provide further information. They do not signify that we endorse the website(s). We have no responsibility for the content of the linked website(s).

Your use of this website and any dispute arising out of such use of the website is subject to the laws of England, Scotland and Wales.